It is becoming ever increasingly popular in today’s world that people are writing their own wedding vows and steering away from the more traditional ones. One of the main things that gets some controversy is when a woman has to agree to obey her husband. Many people find this is too outdated and decide to remove it. Obviously it is really down to the individuals while they decide to include in their wedding vows but below we will hopefully give you some tips to help.
It is important to start of when writing your wedding vows with a clean sheet of paper that you can put the important main bullet points on their of what you want to include. You can then expand on these on a separate piece of paper and keep referring back to your main bullet points for the next thing to write about. Many couples decide to write their vows together this means they will both match and none will outshine the other. Many think you will be including will be very personal but you should also not forget to include many of the traditional vows at the same time. The main thing to remember is that you mean all the words that you are writing down and they come straight from your heart. This is important for both partners.
Once you have both finished the first draft of your wedding vows it is a very good idea to read them out loud to each other. Then if something doesn’t sound quite right you can quickly amend it. This may take a bit of time but will be well worth it on the big day. This will really make the ceremony stand out from the more traditional ones that many people find to be long, boring and drawn out. The more you can make your wedding unique and individual, the more people will remember it for many years to come. Biting your own wedding vows is a perfect way to do this and to really show each other how much you mean to each other.